Hi 👋 I’m Gem. I’m a mum to three boys, a Sunday Times best selling author and a birth & postnatal doula. Throughout my career I have worked with hundreds of parents on a one to one basis and now I help hundreds of thousands more through my social media work. I know what makes parents tick, what struggles they face (from the challenge of a colicky baby to wondering how on earth you are going to fit everything in as a single parent).

Parents contact me on a daily basis, desperately trying to find a solution. They are exhausting themselves trying to be everything to everyone.

⁠When I first became a mum I lost myself in among the housekeeping, the school runs, the work (both paid and unpaid) and the rest of the life admin that just ‘had’ to get done. ⁠⠀

I don’t want that to be you.⁠ It is my mission to help as many parents as I can to find balance – and not only that – to find themselves again.⁠⠀

If you need help with the housework then head over to the TOMM section. If you need help with time management then take a look at TOTT. Or perhaps you need a helping hand with both? Don’t worry, I can help. Make yourself a cup of something soothing and have a browse through everything here. 

You can be as ‘all in’ as you choose to be. Print off the free printouts, download the apps (we have a housekeeping app and a timekeeping app), pick up one of my best selling books or if you need one to one help then you can book a virtual session with me. 


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“I love TOMM because I thought motherhood had turned me into a disorganised mess who didn’t have time for the house, but it showed me that I just needed a little reassurance, a plan and a support group.  I am me again”


“I’ve never had such a clean house, yet done so little cleaning!”


“It even impresses my mother.  She regularly comments how clean and tidy my house looks”


“TOMM gives me my weekends back. I can’t remember the last time that I spent hours cleaning whereas it was a weekly thing before and the house never felt clean for long. Now my house is visitor ready most of the time, or can be visitor ready in less than 15 mins! Truly life changing!”


“I finally feel in control for the first time in years”


“I love TOMM because it helped me when I thought there was no way out of the clutter and chaos that 2 small children bring.  TOMM taught me to love and take pride in my home again.”